OBEY YOUR PARENTS

"Children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. Honour your Father and Mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, so that it may be with you, and that you may live long on this earth. 

The person who holds our little hand and teach us the way to walk we call him DAD.The other one who cares for us and stay all night for us we call her MOTHER they are our Parents. Without them, our existence is nothing even we are nothing. 

We can't do anything without the support and prayers of them for us. They are our paradise. They are our backbone. Our backbone just allows us to walk, and they allow us to meaning full life. We should stay loyal to them until our last breath.

Unfortunately in this era, we forget the meaning of parents, We forget what they are for us, we just know that they give us life and nothing else. We forget to give them respect for what they deserve.

Children seem to focus more on fictional characters and how they are portrayed on screen and other celebrity figures. I believe that this happens because they are seen as "cool." After all, they are on TV, where they are portrayed as heroes, and they are playing exciting roles. I interact with a lot of children, and they are always excited to tell me about the newest movie that they are excited to see or the latest youtube sensation.      

I noticed when I was writing this article that the adults seemed to admire their parents and grandparents. I believe that this is because as we get older and begin to face more adult situations and we are then able to become more accepting and understanding of why our parents had to make the choices that they made for us while we are growing up. 

While we are in childhood, We see their decisions as harsh or overreactions and are not able to truly understand why they feel those are the right decisions. I personally, as I have gotten older, have learned to appreciate my parents because without their actions and decisions, while I was in my middle childhood, I would not be the strong woman that I am today.

I believe that society has drastically changed as well as the dynamics of most families. Families are not as interactive with each other as they once were, such as not eating dinner around the dinner table, playing on electronics instead of spending quality time together, etc. Our children are seeing this more and modelling after their parents and focusing on technology.
       

Furthermore, your parents are always there for you. They are the only ones who are with you for no purpose. They are your real friends and well-wishers. However, in our nerves, this is opposite insanely, we visualize things wrong because we know that we are right all the time or in any way.

 Additionally, technology plays the most worse role in this modern era innocent children are stick with their phones, laptops,  video player instead of their parents. The time we should spend with our parents we give that time to technology. 

We should obey and respect our parents and this is the key to success. Our behaviour hurts them a lot that we can't explain or even we can’t realize some time our little bit behaviour hurts them .when we don't listen to them, they taught us how to speak.
 We should not have arguments with parents. It is not wise to start arguing and speaking louder with them all affects them. All our doing break their heart and sometimes crash their soul or maybe turn their heart into pieces sadly we don't care, we can’t feel their pains because we give more time to our activities.

 Close your eyes and think if you do all which you do with your parents like the argument and, speak loud. Is another person bears you? definitely hates you and leave you for forever and see your parents they still care you and are with you. We can't feel this pain that we are giving to our parents until we face the following conditions.

1-Unless we become parents .so our child behaves the same as we are acting with our parents because it is like that, As you sow So shall you reap .on that moment you feel the pain.
   2- Sadly you lost your paradise you lost your backbone. From that, you are unable to walk, you can't see them, hug them touch them and talk to them you might see them in dreams on that day you feel pain, but just we can regret on our doings with them.


It is not late yes my friend, it's not late you still have the time never to feel regret go to them and hug them and say sorry for all you did and tell that you are nothing without them all you need to do is make your good memories with parents learn a lesson from them, give them respect spend time them. THEY ARE YOUR WELL WISHERS AND ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU.


We should listen to their sorrows make a healthy and unbreakable bond with them enjoy your success with them cherish you every day with your parents  Pay attention to their advice that is for your betterment, try to not speak aloud in front of them and also don't argue with them.

Speak politely give them the respect which they really deserve the love which they still give you with your wrongdoings. With all these small doing in a few days, you feel the change in your life. You start moving toward success. If you cast a look to all legends and successful personalities around yourself. They are at the peak of success just because of their parents. 

They all follow and respect their parents if you want to be one of them you need to obey your parents and remember we cannot give them back for what they had done for us. Always appreciate your parents, you never know what sacrifice they made for you. Be loyal to your parents when they are with you.

This applies to my life as I follow this rule. Respect is something that we have to share amongst other people.

 Our parents are older and wiser than us, we should abide by their teachings, as they may have experienced things that we haven't, and they know what's best for us. Try to understand them and understand their decision. Most importantly Always Value their sacrifices.

 So always try to respect and love them and also respect everyone because RESPECT is the key to MANKIND.

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We Have to Live with a Purpose

              

  “We Have to Live with a Purpose”

We always think that how important it is to live with a purpose, work hard for our dreams, Never Give Up.

I was born in Pakistan. It is a wonderful country, but it is a place where to achieve dreams or goals is almost impossible. All my childhood life, I always had fantasies about things that I wanted to have or do, but a lot of those dreams I never achieve because I had a big brick wall and this brick wall was very high that stopped my life and most of my thoughts as a child.


  But now, I learn the importance to keep moving forward and never give up I want to achieve the dreams that I had in my childhood and also those that I have now in my adulthood. 

 I think that thoughts are significant because they give us a purpose to be able to live and above all to be able to learn, progress, and experience joy, suffering, and all the feelings that life gives us.

 For example, when I was in my childhood my dream was to write many articles for my mom and for the audience.  Now I am 19 and it has been many years since I had that dream, I have fulfilled it, but I hope that many new articles I will write in the coming days.   Probably not sure I'll make many mistakes along the way, but I'll do my best to achieve this dream. The reason most people never reach their goals is that they Don't Define them. Ever seriously they consider them as believable or achievable.

 The world is a brutal site and would lead no chance to judge accomplishments. But this is your fighting of obsession with fondness; your demons cannot take it from you. Sometimes you attend to others rather than to listen to yourself. You gave up just because of the Worst word spoken against you. In contrast to this, often, you lose your confidence.

" All you need is to shine from your inner spirit."

Trust your efforts. Therefore, people believe in themselves. If you committed yourself, then you can accomplish it. Neglect all the horrible things around yourself; give the best version of yourself. You're like that flower which surrounds along with thrown; face millions of storms. But never stop flourishing.

"In the same way, you are that flower everywhere there are hazardous people around you exclude them; never cease shining. The first step you require is to stop thinking: what if I do this; that, what people think of me, stop this insanity, start thinking I do what I love to do, I do what I wanted to be in my life because this is my life. "



some people have a  job to criticize let them do their jobs. Your job is to resist. If you start thinking in that way sooner or later, you start breaking the barriers which are coming in front of your goals.
Always believe yourself. 

Furthermore, never attend to antagonistic people, do what makes you delighted and go toward your fantasy, don't live in nightmares, try to live your dream because life is to brief nobody recognizes where it ends. Do not give endorsement to anyone to let you down.

This terrible place is full of negativity, pitiless; believe me, it's dark as a horrible vision you need to Make your spirit secure, people try to demoralize you. You need to concentrate on your dreams. You only find a feeling of great peace, comfort, happiness in a fantasy world but not in this crucial world.

To live life to the fullest with no Regrets. Learn how to forgive and forget those who are wrong with us or harm us. Be happy no matter what the circumstances are because tomorrow will always be a new and brighter day. It is important to learn to forgive and hold no regrets and to be optimistic when a bad situation arises, but there is something more to life.

 The purpose of life is a perpetual question that has intrigued mankind since the beginning of human existence. 

Without purpose:
you aimlessly living your life, confused and don't know what is your mission to achieve after getting up every morning.

                                      " life begins with purpose "

With purpose: 
you achieve remarkable success and know your path of life

When you find your purpose:
you’ll feel good about who you are, what you stand for, and where you’re heading.
When you discover your purpose, inner peace will replace the need to seek approval from others.  People who live a life of purpose have core beliefs and values that influence their decisions, shape their day-to-day actions, and determine their short- and long-term priorities. 

They place significant value on being a person of high integrity and in earning the trust and respect of others. The result is that they live with a clear conscience and spend more time listening to their inner voice than being influenced by others.

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